Undoubtedly, almighty has blessed female counterparts with a dash of extra in terms of emotions. Be it inherit physiology or the setup created by the society, a woman goes through an emotional roller coaster right from the day she leaves her house as a bride, and later when she decides to become a mother. For every woman, the journey of becoming a mother from a girl is full of extending emotions— from the excitement to conceiving a baby to the fear of labour, from feeling more close to their mothers to feeling identity crises, from the inexplicable feeling of holding your kid for the first time to postpartum depression. Altogether, becoming a mother is not as dreamy as one has imagined, neither it can be as dead as it looks.
Becoming a mother or going through the pregnancy process doesn’t only make your bond stronger with your mom, but also makes you a better person in so many ways. Yes, issues like sleep deprivation, emotional mood swings, nausea come with pregnancy. In fact, at times, one can feel extremely scared, frustrated, and vulnerable but magically everything vanishes when you hear your newborn crying. Motherhood teaches you how to love unconditionally, how you can actually put someone above yourself, it teaches you to be responsible and be grateful to your parents. However, it’s next to impossible to comprise the journey form a girl to mother but here are some universal experiences for all the wonderful mothers and would be mothers.
1. It’s an emotional outburst
Making a human inside your womb is not a regular experience ladies!! Once the new of pregnancy will broke to you it will be followed by emotional volcano and you would be excited to share the same with your husband and close once.
2. You will feel more connected to your mother
Suddenly the feeling that once you too were nourished inside a womb, then pampered in arms and later forever kept in heart will jolt you with an emotional rush towards your mother.
3. It’ll be mixed feeling
During pregnancy and post pregnancy you’ll come across many medical conditions along with the increasing excitement to hold your child, leading to mix feelings
4. Holding your child for the first time
This feeling that is beyond exploitation And when after all the ups and down, and intense labor pain you finally hold a part of your own body you will experience something that’s unfair to describe through words.
5. It will make you exhausted
You’ll be obsessed with your kid No doubt that motherhood will cost you being late at almost every event, and make you feel extremely exhausted but at the same time your phone gallery will be filled with your kid’s photos and the obsession and love will keep increasing with time.
Becoming a mother is wonderful, girls, if you have made up your mind go for it without a doubt. HAPPY MOTHERHOOD!!
